tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071378064607455297.post1582780035262110906..comments2023-11-03T01:53:13.022-07:00Comments on One Cluttered Brain: Living in the same town as family is over rated--Cluttered Brainhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13068569346668780952noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071378064607455297.post-11633444466153040032011-09-26T07:45:12.245-07:002011-09-26T07:45:12.245-07:00I am finding that an hour away from family is a go...I am finding that an hour away from family is a good distance. :( Hugs!!Linda Ramoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11887094956773260763noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071378064607455297.post-27343232424535028592011-09-24T15:10:32.387-07:002011-09-24T15:10:32.387-07:00Umm I don't know who Ruth is but that was all ...Umm I don't know who Ruth is but that was all kinds of rude to just spill personal stuff in the comments. I live in front of my mom and she helps us a lot but she would NEVER over do that like that.. that is just rude and uncalled for.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01949756584291140114noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071378064607455297.post-54258148079873430372011-09-24T11:13:44.098-07:002011-09-24T11:13:44.098-07:00I seriously know how you feel. Be glad that it...I seriously know how you feel. Be glad that it's not your husband filling in all his time-that's what mine did-HE filled up his time with ANYTHING but us. Be grateful that your hubby doesn't do that. And maybe try a calendar? Schedule a date night-if you don't it will never happen, and make sure that if it's not on the calendar, then it doesn't happen. It's not too Debbiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03942737058511783970noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071378064607455297.post-68700602705350275822011-09-23T13:37:05.433-07:002011-09-23T13:37:05.433-07:00I'm so sorry, girl. This is why I refuse to l...I'm so sorry, girl. This is why I refuse to live close to the in-laws. Eldon is too nice to say no. And I look like a jerk if I do. Hang in there, things will get better! And know, you are loved!Momnerdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15210200258895345395noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071378064607455297.post-3602129871454419942011-09-23T13:20:04.677-07:002011-09-23T13:20:04.677-07:00I am fairly certain his parents feel like he can d...I am fairly certain his parents feel like he can do what they ask, because they have given you A LOT of money. I know it does not seem fair, but in this life rarely do you get something for nothing. Are you still driving their car back and forth to work? If you are, then that is something else they are doing for you. Be grateful and know that this to shall pass.Ruthhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08378837810080582650noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6071378064607455297.post-60280166416087872262011-09-23T11:18:00.805-07:002011-09-23T11:18:00.805-07:00I think you have to sit your husband down and have...I think you have to sit your husband down and have a conversation about the word, "NO!". <br /><br />They can schedule all they want, but it is his choice if he goes or not. I know that is easier said than done, and I know it is hard to say no to family....but he has got to set those boundaries, or they will continue to take up all his time. :( <br /><br />Sorry babe. It sucks. I hopeTracie Nallhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07908908021649000930noreply@blogger.com